You Shall Disown God’s Enemies Abraham Disowned His Father
9:113 Neither the prophet, nor those who believe shall ask forgiveness for the idol worshipers, even if they were their nearest of kin, once they realize that they are destined for Hell.
9:114 The only reason Abraham asked forgiveness for his father was that he had promised him to do so. But as soon as he realized that he was an enemy of GOD, he disowned him. Abraham was extremely kind, clement.
9:115 GOD does not send any people astray, after He had guided them, without first pointing out for them what to expect. GOD is fully aware of all things.
To GOD belongs the sovereignty of the heavens and the earth. He controls life and death. You have none beside GOD as a Lord and Master.
9:117 GOD has redeemed the prophet, and the immigrants (Muhãjireen) and the supporters who hosted them and gave them refuge (Ansãr), who followed him during the difficult times. That is when the hearts of some of them almost wavered. But He has redeemed them, for He is Compassionate towards them, Most Merciful.
Who are these people that we are to disown in 9:114?
Basic Law Regulating Relations With Unbelievers
60:8 GOD does not enjoin you from befriending those who do not fight you because of religion, and do not evict you from your homes. You may befriend them and be equitable towards them. GOD loves the equitable. 60:9 GOD enjoins you only from befriending those who fight you because of religion, evict you from your homes, and band together with others to banish you. You shall not befriend them. Those who befriend them are the transgressors.
You can’t disown someone who isn’t related to you or in the same community/circles.
Disown: to say that you no longer want to be connected with someone or something, for example because you are ashamed of them
How do we understand 9:114 in conjunction with 31:14? How do we disown and be amicable with parents if they fall into this category?
The Second Commandment
31:14 We enjoined the human being to honor his parents. His mother bore him, and the load got heavier and heavier. It takes two years (of intensive care) until weaning. You shall be appreciative of Me, and of your parents. To Me is the ultimate destiny. 31:15 If they try to force you to set up any idols beside Me, do not obey them. But continue to treat them amicably in this world. You shall follow only the path of those who have submitted to Me. Ultimately, you all return to Me, then I will inform you of everything you have done.
According to 9:113 I am not suppose to ask forgiveness for the idol worshippers therefore we need to judge who is an idol worshipper and who isn’t.
We need to judge in other matters as well. God tells us not to marry idol worshipers. Or to not befriend those hopelessly stuck in disbelief.
60:13 O you who believe, do not befriend people with whom GOD is angry, and who are hopelessly stuck in disbelief; they are just as hopeless as the disbelievers who are already in the graves.
Do Not Marry Idol Worshipers
2:221 Do not marry idolatresses unless they believe; a believing woman is better than an idolatress, even if you like her. Nor shall you give your daughters in marriage to idolatrous men, unless they believe. A believing man is better than an idolater, even if you like him. These invite to Hell, while GOD invites to Paradise and forgiveness, as He wills. He clarifies His revelations for the people, that they may take heed.
Is a mistake and a sin the same thing?
60:4 A good example has been set for you by Abraham and those with him. They said to their people, “We disown you and the idols that you worship besides GOD. We denounce you, and you will see nothing from us except animosity and hatred until you believe in GOD ALONE.” However, a mistake was committed by Abraham when he said to his father, “I will pray for your forgiveness, but I possess no power to protect you from GOD.” “Our Lord, we trust in You, and submit to You; to You is the final destiny.
33:5 You shall give your adopted children names that preserve their relationship to their genetic parents. This is more equitable in the sight of GOD. If you do not know their parents, then, as your brethren in religion, you shall treat them as members of your family. You do not commit a sin if you make a mistake in this respect; you are responsible for your purposeful intentions. GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.
2:286 GOD never burdens a soul beyond its means: to its credit is what it earns, and against it is what it commits. “Our Lord, do not condemn us if we forget or make mistakes. Our Lord, and protect us from blaspheming against You, like those before us have done. Our Lord, protect us from sinning until it becomes too late for us to repent. Pardon us and forgive us. You are our Lord and Master. Grant us victory over the disbelieving people.”
11:45 Noah implored his Lord: “My Lord, my son is a member of my family, and Your promise is the truth. You are the wisest of the wise.” 11:46 He said, “O Noah, he is not of your family. It is unrighteous to ask Me for something you do not know. I enlighten you, lest you be like the ignorant.” 11:47 He said, “My Lord, I seek refuge in You, lest I implore You again for something I do not know. Unless You forgive me, and have mercy on me, I will be with the losers.”
8:53 GOD does not change a blessing He has bestowed upon any people unless they themselves decide to change. GOD is Hearer, Omniscient.
Conditions for Staying Within God’s Protection*
5:12 GOD had taken a covenant from the Children of Israel, and we raised among them twelve patriarchs. And GOD said, “I am with you, so long as you observe the Contact Prayers (Salat), give the obligatory charity (Zakat), and believe in My messengers and respect them, and continue to lend GOD a loan of righteousness. I will then remit your sins, and admit you into gardens with flowing streams. Anyone who disbelieves after this, has indeed strayed off the right path.”
*5:12 If you fulfill the requirements stated in this verse, God will let you know that He is with you; you will have no doubt about it. Prominent among God’s signs are mathematical signs for those who understand the Quran’s miracle (Appendix 1).
9:74 They swear by GOD that they never said it, although they have uttered the word of disbelief; they have disbelieved after becoming submitters. In fact, they gave up what they never had. They have rebelled even though GOD and His messenger have showered them with His grace and provisions. If they repent, it would be best for them. But if they turn away, GOD will commit them to painful retribution in this life and in the Hereafter. They will find no one on earth to be their lord and master.
68:17 We have tested them like we tested the owners of the garden who swore that they will harvest it in the morning. 68:18 They were so absolutely sure. 68:19 A passing (storm) from your Lord passed by it while they were asleep. 68:20 By morning, it was barren. 68:21 They called on each other in the morning. 68:22 “Let us harvest the crop.” 68:23 On their way, they confided to each other. 68:24 That from then on, none of them would be poor. 68:25 They were so absolutely sure of their harvest. 68:26 But when they saw it, they said, “We were so wrong! 68:27 “Now, we have nothing!”
They Should Have Said: “God Willing.”
68:28 The righteous among them said, “If only you had glorified (God)!” 68:29 They said, “Glory be to our Lord. We have transgressed.” 68:30 They started to blame each other. 68:31 They said, “Woe to us. We sinned. 68:32 “May our Lord grant us a better one. We repent to our Lord.” 68:33 Such was the requital. But the retribution of the Hereafter is far worse, if they only knew.
Property as an Idol*
18:32 Cite for them the example of two men: we gave one of them two gardens of grapes, surrounded by date palms, and placed other crops between them. Footnote 18:33 Both gardens produced their crops on time, and generously, for we caused a river to run through them. 18:34 Once, after harvesting, he boastfully told his friend: “I am far more prosperous than you, and I command more respect from the people.” 18:35 When he entered his garden, he wronged his soul by saying, “I do not think that this will ever end. 18:36 “Moreover, I think this is it; I do not think that the Hour (the Hereafter) will ever come to pass. Even if I am returned to my Lord, I will (be clever enough to) possess an even better one over there.” 18:37 His friend said to him, as he debated with him, “Have you disbelieved in the One who created you from dust, then from a tiny drop, then perfected you into a man? 18:38 “As for me, GOD is my Lord, and I will never set up any other god besides my Lord.
Important Commandment
18:39 “When you entered your garden, you should have said, ‘This is what GOD has given me (Mã Shã Allãh). No one possesses power except GOD (Lã Quwwata Ellã Bellãh).’ You may see that I possess less money and less children than you. 18:40 “My Lord may grant me better than your garden. He may send a violent storm from the sky that wipes out your garden, leaving it completely barren. 18:41 “Or, its water may sink deeper, out of your reach.” 18:42 Indeed, his crops were wiped out, and he ended up sorrowful, lamenting what he had spent on it in vain, as his property lay barren. He finally said, “I wish I never set up my property as a god beside my Lord.”
Is there a difference between hardship and adversity?
Blessings in Disguise
7:94 Whenever we sent a prophet to any community, we afflicted its people with adversity and hardship, that they may implore. 7:95 Then we substituted peace and prosperity in place of that hardship. But alas, they turned heedless and said, “It was our parents who experienced that hardship before prosperity.” Consequently, we punished them suddenly when they least expected.